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Netflix, Wine & Burnout

Dawn Taylor • June 6, 2024

Put down the bottle.

 

No, put it down.

 

Lower, lower, you can do it.

 

Good job.

 

Now let's chat about burnout!

 

As a culture, we have adopted this strange idea that wine and Netflix will actually fix our burnout and I am here to break your heart. It won't.

 

While it may help us feel relaxed, feel lazy, or even calm for a little while the results don't last more than a few minutes or hours if you are lucky and cause us more problems in the end!!

 

The reason? We haven't fixed the root we are just drowning it for a minute and hoping it can't swim.

 

The problem? The issue is deeper than we realize. We haven’t dealt with the root and the more times we burn out? The harder it is to recover.

 

Ask me one day about the time my husband had to cancel all my clients because I literally lost my words and couldn’t make a sound….. Please trust me on this. I have been there too many times and cannot proudly say I haven’t in a very long time.

 

Below are some tangible steps to overcoming it!

 

…And some to make sure you never go there again.

 

5 Steps to Overcoming Burnout:

 

IV Therapy. When you burn out? Your adrenals and cortisol levels are typically ALL OUT OF WHACK and need some love. For this? You need to supplement your body again to get those levels up. I recommend talking to a Naturopath about this but a few good doses of Meyers Concoction have fixed this issue for more people in my life than anyone realizes. Yes, I have made staff members go for IVs!

 

Capacity! Be honest with yourself. How much capacity do you have? Do you need to go to that girl's night, that soccer game, or do that shopping or craft project… Do you need to take on one more project at home or work? I always challenge clients to find a way to reduce their calendars by at least 30% immediately. I am known for living on bag salads during times in my life when my capacity is low and I am giving you permission to do the same.

 

Infant check. Have you pooped, have you had anything to drink, have you slept, are your clothes uncomfy, have you eaten recently and do you need a hug? We often let these things go first!!!

 

SAY NO!!! We talk about boundaries but people have no idea what that means. We don’t put boundaries on other people (you don’t fence THEIR yard) we put them on ourselves.

 

Examples:

 

●    I will not have people talk to me in a certain way. I will not have them talk to me about specific topics. If they do I will walk away, it’s my job to hold my boundaries.

 

●    I will not work on Sundays no matter what, even if that means I have to say no to a client.

 

●    I do not work in the week around Christmas. This is my gift to myself every year. I also block holidays in my calendar before ANYTHING else goes in. If I don’t pay attention to this, I work forever and ever and ever and ever and never take time off. Even the worst job pays vacation pay. It is literally the law that you get time off…..

 

The stuff no one wants to talk about. Food and exercise. You can do all of the above and if you eat horribly and don’t ever move your body you are setting yourself up for failure. If I eat wheat or sugar? I can work 23% less in a day. Yes, I did the math. Yes, I have tracked it. Do you know how much that sugar and wheat cost me in a year?!?! So I don’t eat them. I track my steps and make sure I am moving every day. NO. I am not a gym person. But even around my office/house? I can easily get 4-5,000 steps in and feel better for it. There is no magic way of eating. There is no magic number of steps but making even small changes can make a world of a difference.

 

Start today. One really tiny step. One little tiny change.

 

Burnout is not something that magically goes away. If we don’t make the changes to the root of the issue, we will continue to go there. We will continue to struggle.

 

Ask yourself: Is this worth burning out for? Whose expectations am I trying to meet? Am I scared to slow down? Is there something bigger going on?

 

I promise. You can do hard things.

 

Always in your corner,

 

Dawn

Written for Pivot Your Wellness check out the article here: https://www.pivotyourwellness.com/blog/netflixwineburnout

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