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10 Things I Learned During My Time In NYC

July 10, 2023
  1. I don’t like climbing a ladder to get into bed. Nope. I really don’t. I really don’t love climbing up and down to pee. Up and down to go to bed every night. Nope. Just don’t. It took me 15 days but I finally moved to the couch

  2. I have allowed myself to connect to people differently in my everyday life which is AMAZING but it has made me MISS PEOPLE so deeply. I have been LONELY on this trip!!! I realized how much I love my people and need to put more energy into connecting with them and maintaining relationships. I am not amazing at this. I know this but this trip is challenging me to make changes.

  3. It is NOISY here. Not just the actual crazy volume of the city but also the energy. The fear, the anger, the scared, all of it. It is a different feel than I have ever experienced at home in Canada. I had one NOT safe cab situation but figured it out quickly and was ok. I had one person say horrible things to me that made me go directly into a store and not leave until I had someone to walk me to a cab. But other than that? I didn’t feel unsafe. I did feel very sad a lot. I felt a LOT of people anger and energy and fears and that was hard.

  4. I drink a LOT of my daily fluids at the end of my day. Please see #1

  5. I could live in a tiny home. But I could NOT work in it as well. I have dreamt for years of living in an RV or in a tiny home but mentally? I need to have a different space for work and living and sleep and play and all the things. This has DEEPLY shifted my dreams and goals for the next 10 years. And I am glad I figured it out now and not later!!

  6. I change easily. I went from cooking with 60 spices and an amazing kitchen to NO spices and a 4 foot tiny space and it didn’t really phase me. It was very interesting to see how a different kitchen created whole different ways of eating and drinking. All of a sudden my cooking changed, my beverages changed (no more bougie coffee!!!!!) and new flavours. It was a nice break but I miss my old food.

  7. People. I miss hugging people!!!!! I am such a hugger and LOVE the connection that it gives. It took me 19 days to ask a complete stranger for a hug. Yes. Yes, I did. NO SHAME.

  8. Day 1-5? FUN Day 6-9 Lonely. Oh so lonely but still fun. Day 10-14 LIVING THE DREAM!!!!!!!! Day 15-18 I just wanna go home. Change my ticket!!!!! Why did I ever do this!!!!! Day 19 I think I want to move here…… Day 21 crying as I go home but excited to see my Husband!

  9. Every single person who actually talked to me and visited with me while I was in NYC was NOT from here. They were from all other states. People here? Were oddly snobby. I laughed out loud at some people's responses when I smiled and said hi or asked how they were doing. This poor friendly Canadian girl is just not fitting in.

  10. I can’t wait to go back. I will go for less time. I will bring someone with me. But I will 100% go back. I LOVE it here. I love the parks, the energy, the food, the architecture, the subways, the odd little neighbourhoods and more. I love it. So much and am so glad that I did this.


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